Marriage Mondays: Find Eachother's Common Interests
Hi Dolls... It's Heaven here.
Happy New Year & Happy Monday! As you all know by now, Every Monday, I blog about topics regarding Marriage titled #MarriageMonday where I discuss things that I'm experiencing as a Newlywed as well as things I'll need advice on. This is for my fellow Brides to Be & Wives. Please feel free to comment below or under the #MarriageMonday post on my Instagram (@HeavenTheQuaintrelle).
Now, on to the topic of the day is Finding Eachother's Common Interests as one your 2017 Marriage Goals.
So, We are in our 3rd week of 2017 & I'm sure you & your Spouse have set out some goals for 2017 that you'll like to accomplish together & just like 85% of the world, you both have already forgot all about that list. Guess what? That's Okay & quite normal. We all do it so don't beat yourself up. This is what these posts will do: Allow you to focus on specific things that should be on your 2017 Goals list to strengthen your relationship.
With Today's Topic, Sit down with your spouse & really discuss /write down a few of things you BOTH love, you BOTH enjoy, shows you BOTH like to watch, books you BOTH like to read, places you BOTH like to go. Embark on it! Make it a point to indulge in what you BOTH enjoy! I emphasize BOTH because one thing I'm learning is SELFLESSNESS! Lawd! That's a challenge. My world has always revolved around me so considering another person's feelings, opinions and thoughts as much as my own is something I'm learning how to do everyday. With that being said, I know that with this exercise, It can be easy to push your interest on your spouse & then the whole purpose is defeated.
Please comment below your take on the topic, your experiences, your thoughts or questions on this post below.
Until next Monday's Post, Brides & Wives!
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